Is it just me?!!!!

Ok, so I've been thinking a lot! And pretty sure I'm not the only one to think this, but perhaps one of the first to speak about it!!!
Marriage! Yes, we fall in love, get those feelings when all we want to do is be with that person, share everything!
We love them! We decide the next step is marriage! Ok, now avoiding all the other negative aspects, the family ties, the fights, the way you just don't agree on things you thought you would! My main issue is this:
We marry someone, and pretty much 90% of all of us spend most of the time being away from that person! One, or both of you work! You perhaps have children, one of you may spend there time looking after them. The closeness you had simply can not exist as it did. Forget all the vows and morals here. Surely in life we need to love?! We need to feel and spend this short time on earth feeling good, making others feel good?! Instead, over years and years we developed this sense of importance that simply is not important!!! We argue, we fight, we become jealous! We realise we want other things, yet trap ourselves in morally obligating situations, because that's how we perceive what is right!!
I'm not stating that we should go, have affairs, or break up, but seriously, think about what is important in this life to you! Be honest and make the most of what you have. Just look at the country! A person or group attempt to rule it, but no one is ever happy, people are not honest, and priorities are lost consistently!!! Think about it!!!