Don't forget for the sake of day dreams!!

Before you start wishing your life was different, try and remember what decisions got you to this life first! Remember who you are, who you love, and why you loved those things.
I'm pretty sure most of us lose site, and believe we belong in a better planned out life that was once so prominent in our head, where we believe we are worth more and can achieve more! You still can do all those things, just be patient and resonable!
But try to remember that time, the one which you loved beyond recognition, where you were possibly not rational, but we're happy. Know that those ideals at that time lead to what you have now, and that what you have is actually what many envy.
Always remind yourself, always love what you have. We only have this one life, not that we should squander what we have for small fantasies or day dreams, like you would be told to think ( usually by those who want the love you have or had), embrace the moments, be less aggressive, and happy in everything you do.